Preschool Teacher how-to

How to Handle a Conflict Between Children

Conflicts are chances to teach social skills.

Updated By the Career Education Institute Curriculum Team
Quick answer

Conflicts are chances to teach social skills. In short: stay; make; name, then complete the remaining steps below.

Step by step

  1. Stay calm and move close.

  2. Make sure everyone is safe.

  3. Name the feelings you see.

  4. Let each child explain.

  5. Help them find a solution.

  6. Praise them for solving it.

Safety reminders for preschool teachers

  • Keep required ratios and count children often
  • Follow handwashing and sanitizing routines
  • Know allergies and emergency plans
  • Supervise outdoor play closely

Developmentally appropriate practice · Play-based learning · Learning centers · Circle time · Transitions · Social-emotional learning: see the full preschool teacher glossary.

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